Upholder, Questioner, Obliger, or Rebel? πŸ€”


Decluttering Tips and Support Weekly Newsletter Vol. 34

Dear Reader,

On the heels of my 44th birthday, I am thankful for my health, family, friends, and large hats. πŸ‘’

To celebrate, I'm having another review giveaway from now until September 30! Only 5 people have entered so far for a chance to win 2 $50 Amazon gift cards!

On the podcast...

Have you ever heard of The Four Ten​dencies personality framework from Gretchen Rubin? Each tendency differs in their response to internal and external expectations, and can tell us a lot about how we can approach decluttering and organizing differently.​

β˜‘οΈ Upholders respond readily to outer and inner expectations. They thrive within routines and love to-do lists and schedules. Their best bet is to time block their decluttering tasks and pick a weekly donation pickup/drop-off time.

β˜‘οΈ Questioners question ALL expectations. They’ll meet an expectation if they think it is logical to them. Since questioners always want to know WHY, it's helpful if they constantly remind themselves of why they are seeking a clutter-free life.

β˜‘οΈ Obligers (like me!) respond readily to outer expectations, but may struggle with inner expectations. Outer accountability is key, which is why our Facebook community is great for obligers. A new decluttering challenge starts on Monday!

β˜‘οΈ Rebels resist all expectations, outer and inner alike. For rebels, it's helpful to go back to your identity and how a clutter-free life helps you (be a more patient mom, more loving spouse, etc.)

Not sure which one you are? Take the quiz to find out!

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I also had the pleasure of speaking to Kelly Briggs from Simple Home Mom in Episode 156 about how to create chore systems as a neurodivergent mom (or one with neurodivergent kids!)

We talk about loop planning, Plan B chores, working with your brain, and much more!

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On the journey with you,

Emily

P.S. Skipped to the end? No problem! On Tuesday I shared how your tendency can impact your decluttering and organizing approach. On Thursday I chatted with Kelly Briggs about chore systems for neurodivergent moms (and kids)! ​

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