6 Reasons We Hold Onto Stuff


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Dear Reader,

We are officially moving from Virginia to Pennsylvania this summer, and I have NEVER been more grateful for my clutter-free home.

In order to get house "listing-ready" we've had to clear surfaces, relocate furniture, and maximize the space to entice potential buyers.

Since we don't have a garage, any excess stuff has been moved to part of our basement. As I moved Lego sets, bean bag chairs, bookshelves, and end tables, I am incredibly grateful that we have purged unnecessary stuff from our home over the last 11 years I've pursued a minimalist lifestyle.

That being said, there's still more we will likely declutter before the move - and I've been thinking about the six reasons that we hold onto stuff (and how to more easily let go).

On the Podcast

I LOVE creating acronyms on my podcast. A few of my favorites include:

- The S.I.M.P.L.E. method from Episode 97

- Your Simple S.P.R.I.N.G. Decluttering Plan from Episode 111

Now I've introduced a new (somewhat strange) acronym for the six reasons we hold onto our stuff - MUPPET. (Not sure how to remember that. Perhaps we want to hold onto stuff like we want to hug Elmo??)

Here's a brief overview of the six reasons - I dive into each one in Episode 235 as well as how can get unstuck and start letting go!

🌟 Memories - the sentimental items we hold onto because we equate the thing with the memories they evoke

🌟 Utility - keeping something because it's useful is fine, as long as we are actually using it and not keeping it because it MIGHT be useful someday

🌟Possibility - these are the things we "might" use "someday" if only we had the time, energy, or resources (otherwise known as aspirational clutter)

🌟 Pleasure - it's fine to hold onto things because they "spark joy" as long as we display them and contain them so that they don't take over our space

🌟 Expectations - keeping things because we "should" or because we think others expect us to means that we are surrounding ourselves with things that make us feel guilty

🌟Tomorrow - clutter is delayed decision-making, so holding onto what we're going to get to "tomorrow" is problematic because tomorrow usually means never

Listen to Episode 235 on your favorite podcast player or watch on YouTube!

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On the journey with you,

Emily

P.S. Skipped to the end? No problem! This week I shared the six reasons we hold onto stuff (and how to start letting go).

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